Lies & Fables

It's amazing how one or two people can cause you to look at an entire group of people differently. That isn't fair or right, is it? I don't want people to look at the news or the media and see a couple black guys doing wrong and label the entire race based upon what they've seen on TV. But I'm trying to not do this same thing when it comes to females lying to me. I dont know, it's interesting that you put your trust in a friend, in someone and they just lie to your face. Than after lying they validate their lies. I dont know and I know that you aren't supposed to "pay back" people when they wrong you. God said that vengence is His. I have some ideas of how I want to take vengence into my own hands but yet I know it's right. It's always a battle of good and evil, right and wrong, light vs dark. Help me, someone just say: "Champ, vengence is the Lord's and you aren't not the Lord, so sit back and allow Him to judge, to repay and do His work." I'm scared cause I normally never just "get people back." But this particular person has lied, betrayed, been manipulative and dishonest so many times and I keep saying: "It's okay" that I want to finally take matters into my own hands. Hmmmmmm, what do I do? Decisions...